Divorce is hard on everyone involved, and you need to be careful in the way that you address it when it comes to your children. You need to be careful in the way that you tell your children that your marriage has trouble and that it is going to be ending. As you are talking to your children about divorce, you need to make sure that they understand that they are going to be okay and that everything will work out fine in the end. There is no easy way to tell your children that you are getting a divorce, but there is a way in which you can talk to them to make things a bit simpler.
When you tell your kids you’re getting a divorce, make sure that your spouse is at your side. You do not want the child to blame the messenger and you do not want to trick them by only telling your side of the story. Have your soon to be ex sit down with you and help you tell the child what is going on. Talk calmly with the child and make sure that neither one of you blames the other for what is happening.
As you are talking to your child, make sure that he or she understands that they are not to blame for what is happening and make sure that they understand that everything is going to be okay. It is important for your child – no matter their age – to know that they are always going to have your love and that they will always be safe. It is important for your child to know that they will always have a home and that life will keep going on. Take time to answer your child’s questions and to offer them comfort as they need it.